Thursday, January 20, 2011

Rori Raye: Lelaki Ini

If you're experiencing your man pulling away - or he's just stalling and keeping things as they've always been without moving the relationship forward into a real, lifelong commitment, you can turn that around right now.

Even if you've tried everything, and had results once but then everything went back to the way it was, where nothing's happening for the future, it's not too late.

Men are easy.

If they want you, they want you - and you don't have to work hard at all to make that happen.

But then, they'll often do the absolute MINIMUM they have to do to keep you around.


They'll try to keep you at "girlfriend" level as long as they can without making a commitment.


They'll try to hang onto their "freedom" as long as they can without making a commitment.


They'll say they need "time."


They'll say they're not "ready."


If you lean back, step back, and stop over functioning, they'll cave in to themselves, "snap-to" and work hard to get back in your "good graces" until they can "slack off again" and
STILL keep you around for awhile longer.


Men are champs at drawing things out.

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