Rori Raye : Get loved

If you've ever worked "hard" at getting a man to love you, you probably know firsthand that approach doesn't work very well.

Trying to be very sexy and attractive by wearing the right clothesor saying the right things rarely gets a man "hooked" on you - EMOTIONALLY.

Being very accommodating and "nice" usually gets you more in the "friend" zone than love. It takes a certain way of BEING with a man that makes him take notice and feel a longing for you.

It's not about DOING or TRYING - it's about being the most feminine, authentic and self-assured woman you can be.

It's something you can learn to do, even though what you're doing is just getting rid of the old patterns and pitfalls that DON'T work (but we've been led to believe that they do.

Kehidupan bermadu yang sakinah

Poligami atau lebih dikenali dengan kate lain sebagai 'nak kawen lagi satu' kebiasaannya akan menyebabkan pertelingkahan sebab tak lain dan tidak bukan adalah kerana perasaan cemburu si isteri, dan juga kasih sayang dan perhatian yang terpakse kene share.

Jadi, bagi mereka yang bakal mempunyai suami yang berniat untuk kawen lagi satu, ini adalah TIPS untuk mewujudkan keluarga yang sakinah.

1. Semua isteri yang memiliki sikap yang berbeza akan menjadi kekuatan yang saling mendukung. Perbezaan tersebut akan menjadi RAHMAT dan bukan saling bertengkar.

2. Perlu hindar sikap menonjolkan diri atau anggap dirinya adalah yg paling penting dan berpengaruh serta paling disayangi suami

3. Ikhlas - menjadi dasar utama, terutama bagi isteri pertama yang lebih berpengalaman dengan menganggap suami adlaah PINJAMAN daripada Allah SWT.

4. Isteri pertama harus menunjukkan contoh dan teladan yang baik kerana ini akan menentukan keharmonian dan di tangan isteri pertama lah terletaknya keluarga yang sakinah.

5. Kesabaran dalam mendidik anak-anak dengan tidak membezakan diantara anak sendiri dengan anak madunya.

6. Sekiranya memiliki wang simpanan yang lebih, sebaiknya digunakan untuk ibadah (sedekah, infak) dan mengisi dada dengan ilmu bermanfaat secara bersama-sama diantara para isteri.

7. Selalu ikut perkembangan anak dan bekalkan mereka dengan ilmu agama dan dunia.

Untuk membangunkan keluarga sakinah memerlukan

TELADAN

CINTA ILMU

SISTEM YANG ISLAMIK

Suami perlu MEMBINA JIWA para isteri dan mengajar mereka tentang perlunya:

Keakraban sesama mereka,

Mengagihkan perhatian,
Pembahagian waktu yang adil

sehingga tidak seorang pun diantara mereka yang merasa diperlakukan secara idak adil.

Untuk si isteri yang suaminye akan kawen lain, memang tidak akan menjadi semudah yang dikata. Dan untuk si suami yang berkawn lain , memang syok gitu~

Rori Raye: Lelaki Ini

If you're experiencing your man pulling away - or he's just stalling and keeping things as they've always been without moving the relationship forward into a real, lifelong commitment, you can turn that around right now.

Even if you've tried everything, and had results once but then everything went back to the way it was, where nothing's happening for the future, it's not too late.

Men are easy.

If they want you, they want you - and you don't have to work hard at all to make that happen.

But then, they'll often do the absolute MINIMUM they have to do to keep you around.

They'll try to keep you at "girlfriend" level as long as they can without making a commitment.

They'll try to hang onto their "freedom" as long as they can without making a commitment.

They'll say they need "time."

They'll say they're not "ready."

If you lean back, step back, and stop over functioning, they'll cave in to themselves, "snap-to" and work hard to get back in your "good graces" until they can "slack off again" and
STILL keep you around for awhile longer.

Men are champs at drawing things out.

N.I.A. Shukor, Latip, J, M.C. Manshor et al. 2011

Hari Thaipusam ni, I macam malas nak ke Bt. Cave..baik lepak kat lab lagi baguih dan wat preparatif yang tak siap tu sebab assistant I cuti bersalin gamoknye (heheh jgn maraa). So, kene mai jugak nak siapkan..nanti ibunde bising keje lambat siap..

Yesterday..

Meeting yang ke entah berape kalinye ini telah diadekan semalam iaitu Rabu, dan ahli2 lembaga pengarah yang akan terlibat termasuklah;Master madya Madiha Che Manshor,Master madya Nur Indah Abdul Shukor , dan yang paling mude bertaraf encik sahaje iaitu Abe Hassey.. Yang diketuai oleh Professor wannabe iaitu P.M.Dr.J.L..

Meeting nye kul 6 petang kat lab NMR, ala, meeting biase2 je setakat tunjuk powerpoint je, adelah dalam 5 menit pastu dah siap..kalau dulu meeting best jugak, sebab ahli2 nye ramai..oleh kerane ramai, mesti ade makan2, dari makan pagi, lunch sampai ler ke minum petang, tu yang syoknye, tapi since ade los estudiantes yang dah memencenkan diri daripade JL, dan ade senior yang dah habis, so, tinggai lah kami ni bertige jer..so memang xdelah acare makan makan tu lagi..

Well, la ni dah semester 6, which mean dah 3 tahun aku bertape menyiapkan master ni, and tak sudah sudah lagi ate nyee...dulu bukan main lagi, die yang siap tanye aku "Indah, bile nak writing ni?" aku sengih2 jela...then bile aku dah siap sume keje, dia yang duk tambah keja aku lagi, suh wat lagi pokok, pastu nak aku suh cepat2 siap..eee tak paham betollah..

Tetapi aku ni seorang manusia yang idokler reti nak melawan dan menegakkan ape yang die duk habaq dulu...bile die dk bagi arahan, aku just mampu berkate "OK Dr.".. Entohler, mudoh mudohey aku jumpe lah ape yang die nak kan tu..and siap bernazar lagi, kalau lah aku jumpe si Johorenol A tu, aku akan membelanjekan siape2 yg aku rase nak belanjekan makanan.. wink wink

Dengan si Mek madi pulok, suh dapat satu compound every week, tak ke giler namenye..and tibe2 pulak kene buat aktiviti biologi yang terbaru yang tibe2 idea itu terkeluar daripade medula oblongata die..tak pasai2 la kepale hotak mek madi menjadi kebingungan dan migrain memikio kan idea2 terbaru daripade beliau.. sabau je lah .. apo nak buek..

Orang lain dah sebok koje simpan duit nak kawen, beli kete, beli umah, beli perabot, beli emas, beli barang dapor dan macam2...yang kami kami ni duk sebok memikir, nak beli klorofom, metanol, aseton, etil asetat, nak beli TLC sheet , nak beli lampu UV...sume nye dah kehabisan..Namun begitu, kite kene be Thankful to God for everything that we have kan..and stop moaning and complaining!

Rori Raye : If you love him don't be his friend

When a man rejects you, and you're still hanging out and being "friends", when in fact you still have very real feelings for him, you're actually subjecting yourself to hurt and pain as long as you continue to allow him to be just your "friend."

A man who does not desire you is worthless as romantic partner.A good friend, maybe, down the line. But as a romantic partner - worthless.So - forget about this man. Fill up your dance card so much you don't have time to take his phone calls or have coffee with him.

Don't "dump" him, just CROWD HIM OUT. Put him ON HOLD.

Lo siento mucho

Te herí los sentimientos sin querer x

Mane pergi sume tu?

dónde está?

Tu amor?

Buenas noches mi amor?

Te queiro mucho mi amor?

Tu beso mi amor?

Mi cariño, te echo de menos mucho

x x x

The Secret Psychology To Make Him Fall in Love With You

www.havethe realtionshipyouwant.com

What makes a man fall in love?

A man falls in love with you because he knows he can be himself around you. He falls in love with you because he feels SAFE expressing his innermost, private feelings with you.

He feels this way because he knows that you can handle your feelings. He can sense that. And because he senses that at the most unconscious level, he starts to long for your company,for your touch, for your affection. He may not even know why he feels this way.

Once a man feels safe around you, he starts to long for your company, for your touch,and for your affection. He may not even know why he feels this way. All he knows is that there's something special about you that he doesn't feel with any other woman in his life. He's in love.

All he knows is that there's something special about you that he doesn't feel with any other woman in his life.

He wants to take you in his arms and keep you forever.

This is the "secret psychology" of men and love.

I say it's a secret because it's little-understood by women (AND men). It's rare that either you or he will know exactly WHY he feels mesmerized by you and wants to get close to you and pursue you for something serious and long- lasting.

Many of us are wrong about why a man falls in love

We think a man needs sex, or has to have a fabulously gorgeous woman with a great body. We think a man falls for us because we're sweet to him, and kind, and giving. ESPECIALLY giving.

So we do things for him. We cook lovely meals and offer deep, thoughtful advice on whatever troubles him.

We light candles whenever he comes over. We put on our sexiest clothes and buy lacy lingerie.

“We give our bodies, our souls, our minds to him. And STILL he tells us that he's not sure how he feels.” We become exclusive with him without even a passing thought to what WE want, or whether or not he has met our needs yet for a secure, loving and committed relationship.

And STILL he tells us that he's not sure how he feels. Or he becomes distant and moody. Or he stops calling or asking us out as often as he used to. Or he does something very hurtful, or cheats on us, or tells us that he doesn't believe you're "meant" to be together.

This happens because deep down, you didn't trigger love in his HEART. You didn't connect on the deepest, most intimate level ... his feelings.

How to connect with a man's heart

First, here's what doesn't connect with a man's heart: When you tell a man about what you think about the relationship, or what you did that day, or what you think of the latest news you've read or the gossip at work, he listens. He participates in the conversation. But his feelings aren't triggered.

That's because you share everything but who you are. You put up walls with him without even knowing you're doing it. You decide not to tell him the sorrow you felt that morning or how a friend made you happy by calling you and cheering you up.

Or, you actually don't even pay attention to your own emotions. You're too busy with your to-do lists and tasks.

But if you were to allow yourself to FEEL what you're feeling, and then speak from those feelings, you would make him feel safe and connected to you.

It seems like such a simple thing. But for so many of us, it's such a counter-intuitive thing. It's difficult. We're not used to being juicy, sexy, FEELING creatures. So many of us are programmed to be doing, thinking, managing, worrying creatures. Unfortunately, these qualities make a man feel nothing around you.

When you become a feminine, juicy, sensual FEELING creature, you magnetize him simply by being what you were always meant to be...an alluring woman who is soft on the outside, but strong and resilient on the inside.

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Comment stupide je suis

Hmm!

Bodoh..

Estupido..

Stupide..

Sakit..

Macam tunggul..

Hurt..

Menangis..

Kecewe..

Bile ade bende je baru datang..

Kalau tak ade..

Entah mane hilangnye..

"Nak tido bagitau ye"

Kononlaa..boleh bla kot

Alasan..

Terlelap..

Bodoh betul..

Eh sebelum terlelap tu, bukan ke tak terlelap?

Siap bagi arahan suh buat keje..

Tak tahan betul..

Pepagi bute lak tu..

Ingat aku ape..

Software ke?

Aku pun jawab dengan heartless..

MALASLAH!

Tak pernah pun nak kate mcm tu..

Sekali sekale tak pe kot..

Padanlah muke..

Te amo

I never asked for this feeling

I never thougth I would fall

Im in love

I miss you so much

I long for your love

It scares me

Cause my heart gets so weak

That I can't even breathe

Saat mata terpejam
Hanya kau ku terbayang
Menghapus semua segala rasa di jiwaku

Saat mata terbuka
Kamulah yang pertama
Tak mampu aku
Bayangkan
Hidup tanpa dirimu

This is the best feeling

Wouldnt change a thing about it

This moment is perfect

Please dont go away

I need you now

Tapi Ya Allah

Jika dia bukan untukku

Kikiskan pesonanya dari kedua mata ini

Pergilah pergi

Kan kosong hidupku nanti

Biarku hidup jalani hidup tanpamu

Tanpa cinta dan kasihmu

Maafkanlah ku tak bisa hidup tanpa kamu
Fahamilah ku tak mampu terus tanpa kamu
Bagaimana ku nanti
Bila tiada mengganti
Yang ku ada hanya kamu saja

Bila nanti esok hari

Ku temukan dirimu bahagia

Izinkan aku titipkan kisah cinta kita selamanya

PadaMu ku pohon

Suci kanlah hatiku

Sehingga dapat melaksanakan segala rencanaMu

Perlu ke?Duhh~~

Eh,perluke kite ni jadi seorang yang over friendly dgn orang yang kite belum kenal?

Especially dengan opposite sex..

Perlu ke nak tanye dan nak amek tau sume bende , sume hal, dari A sampai Z?

Nama ape

Duduk mane

Blaja mane

Brape adik beradik

Berape boifren

Berape suami

Berape anak

Suke buat ape

Bla bla bla

Lepas tu bagitau kite..

"Suddenly macam teringat pulak kat die, entah, tak tau lah"

Yang kite ni duk denga die becerite, macam tunggul nye rase..

Siap kate.."Tp, tak ingat pulak nak minta nombo fon die,,takpelah..tak penting pun"

Helloo!!!Perlu ke nak mintak no.phone???Kalau tak penting, kenape siap kate "tak ingat pulak nak mintak nombo fon die?"

Siap kate "Die lawa, tapi tak pakai tudung"

Yelah..dah tak blh nak puji yang ni lawa, sbb tak lawa, takkan nak tipu kot kan..puji lah yang lain2 tu..

Ya Allah..

Sedihnye..sedih sedih sedih sangat sangat sangat..

Sakit nye..sakit sakit sakit sangat sangat sangat..
Dalam betul sakit nye..

Macam ade jarum halus yang tajam cucuk kat hati..

Sikit..

Tapi sakit nye tak tau nak explain macam mana sehingga terkeluar air mate tanpa disedari..

Merajuk??

Buat ape..nanti tak de sape nak pujuk..jadinye, pujuk lah hati ni sendiri kan..

Sentiasa berfikiran positive..

Entahlah..

Siape lah kite agaknye..

Yelah tau lah kite ni tak cantik macam orang yang die jumpe tadi tu..

Takpelah..

Bersyukur dgn ape yang ade~

TAPI..

Cube kalau kite yang buat macam tu..mesti melenting agaknye kan..

Tapi, takpe..dont worry ,kite tak akan buat macam tu..sebab kite tau ape rasenye kalau orang buat kat kite macam tu..Kite akan jadi yang terbaik semungkin yang boleh walaupun kadang di dalam tak siape pn tau..WIll do anything and everything..selagi termampu..

Nampak macam remeh je..memang pun..tapi itulah hakikatnye..

Hati~

Dulu, pernah jugak rase macam ni..

Tapi still boleh cool lagi..

Itu pun, berlagak cool je la kan..

Tapi, sekarang..

Tak boleh lagi nak buat lagi macam dulu..

Its different now..

Cume, kalau rase ade someone yang lg baik, lagi cantik dan tak dinafikan kecantikannye, yang lebih layak untuk diganding kan dgn dirinya yang dianggap menjadi kegilaan ramai tu, just be honest..

I know ..Am nothing, Have nothing, nak dibandingkan dgn org lain.

Hanye ade sekeping hati yang ikhlas, setia dan jujur to love and to care till the end.

"Jika nyata bukan dia pemilik tulang rusukku , Kikiskanlah pesonanya dari kedua mataku"

Think about it y'all

Boleh tak u paham orang, walaupn orang tu tak nak lgsung paham u?
Bole tak u memahami orang lain, kmudian u sayang die walaupun die langsung tak nak paham u, lgsung tak nak sayang u?
Sayang org walaupn org tak sayang u?
Jaga orang walaupn orang tu xbleh jaga u?
Kita bole latih
Hidup sangt singkat
Tapi hdup kita akan sangat gembira
Kalau i menang, i juga nak u menang
Kalau i nak bahagia, i nak u juga bahagia
Kalau i nak jadi baik, i nak u juga jadi baik

Por que?? Que te pasa??

Nape la macam ade orang yg tak berape nak puas hati lagi eh? Ape entah yg tak kena lagi or tak cukup lagi ape yg dah jadi and ape yg dah dapat? Rase2 nye macam dah dapat ape yg dihajatkan but still tak puas hati lagi..Aku rase aku yg patot tak puas hati nye..tp aku rase aku dah ok kot dgn ape yg dah ditakdirkan dlm hidup aku ni..and Im happy now dgn ape yg ada..Bende yg dah berlalu dan yg dah lepas tak perlu utk dikenang kembali dan utk dirintih..sebab ape yg berlaku pasti ade hikmahnye yg kite tak nampak..But it seems like ape yg aku buat yang tak ade kene mengenenye dgn mereka macam semua nya serba salah..semua 'kata-kata hikmah' aku yg pernah ditulis, semua nya nak dikritik..porfavorrr~~~~Pening makcik dibuatnye dgn orang2 zaman sekarang ni..ape entah yg die nak dari aku..Malam semalam dah la kantoi..haha...kesian uncle Hussin kene tipu dgn pak imam yg supposed jd imam mlm tu..katenye on the way balik dari kampung,so tak dapatlah nak jadi malam ni..but then..he called me back and i knew it mesti tgh dating ni..tak mungkinlah kat kampung..but saje je buat2 tanye ,jadi tak imam mlm ni?oooo tak jadi rupenye..aku pon lagi la saje2 buat tak tau,macam lah i tak kenal u kann.."kat mane ni?"..ooh kat KL katenye..akak tanye lagi.."blh caye ke kt KL?"..then katenye "kt JB lah" ..oooh dlm hati aku bermonolog "hahah..i knew it..kantoi lah kau dgn aku"..tp i tak kate lah cam tu kan..kesian die nanti malu..biarkan aje..tak kesah pun die nak pergi mane pun tapi janganlah sampai tipu orang lain..kesiaann...tak baik di bulan posa ni pak ustat..i know both of you will read this piece of mind..and definitely akan memberikan komen dan kritikan yg membine utk diri yang serba lemah ini..terime kaseh diatas segala kata-kata yang secara tidaklangsung dituju khas utk akak ni kann...yelah,,sebab kite memang mengaku diri kite ni tak sempurna dan tak sehebat mane pun kire nak dibandingkan dgn u olls sume..dan semua dugaan dan ujian yang diberikan ini menjadikan aku lebih kuat dan tabah utk menghadapi hari2 berikutnya dgn penuh sabar dan tenang serta bersyukur dgn nikmat yg diberikan oleh-Nya..dan tak lupa juga musibah dan ujian itu adalah sebagai kafarah kepada dosa-dosa yang telah sekian lame tersimpan dan sebagai satu cara dosa-dosa itu dibersihkan..Aku sgt bersyukur dan redha dgn ape yang telah berlaku ni..walaupun untuk sampai ke tahap redha tu bukan nye mudah seperti yang kite semua akan sangka..ia ambil masa yang lama utk betul2 merasai nya dgn hati yang ikhlas dengan doa-doa yg dtg dari hati , doa-doa daripada mama dan orang sekeliling yang tak pernah putus dipohon serta air mata yang mengalir keluar mengharap agar dimudahkan segalanya..and now Alhamdulillah dan tak kisahlah dengan ape yg orang lain nak kata pasal kita..~~ ;-)

Mungkinkah Terjadi

Pintu hati telah lama terbuka
Tiba-tiba didatangi oleh kehadirannya yang tak pernah ku pinta
Belum puas soalan ditanya
Hati mula berbunga entah mengapa
Bila ku tanya tak tau kenapa
Perasaan diluah tanpa harapan
Hanya melepas gelisah difikiran
Jauh disudut hati mengharap sedikit ruang
Yang belum pasti diri ini akan penuhi
Resah , gundah menyelubungi jiwa
Kerna menyedari hakikat diri sebenar
Terasa bagai di alam mimpi
Pabila yang serba tiada ini diterima
Walaupun tak pasti dan tertanya-tanya
Apakah perasaan yang hadir daripadanya itu adalah yang sebenar-benarnya
Namun,.kata-kata indah yang pernah diucap kan ku kenang
Dengan terselit jua harapan agar ia akan berakhir dengan sebuah pengakhiran yang suci, kekal abadi hiungga ke syurga
Kira diizin oleh-Nya

Sumber

Bile orang bercinte

Saya suka tengok jari awek saya…Cantik betul… Sungguh! Sampai takut nak pegang…
Bukan takut patah, tapi takut nanti jari kitorang tak boleh tolong each other di depan yang maha Esa…

Saya suka tengok rambut awek saya… Cantik betul… Sungguh! Sebab tu saya belikan tudung…
Bukan sebab jeles orang lain tengok, tapi takut terbakar dek api neraka...

Saya suka tengok body awek saya… Cantik betul… Sungguh! Sebab tu saya belikan dia telekong.
Supaya mase die jumpa dengan Kekasih die Yang Utama dia lagi cantik dan berseri menghadap Nya.

Saya pun tumpang dapat pahala. Pheh syoknye…

Saya sedih tengok awek saya. Tak tido, tak makan rindu kat saya…

Saya pun macam tu jugak, Ada problem yang sama..

Die tanya apa ubatnya? Saya pun bagi die Quran untuk penenang jiwa…
Semoga lebih cintakan Nya dari saya…

Bahagie nye dapat pakwe macam die…

Saya sedih tengok awek saya.. Selalu pesan macam-macam kat saya…
“Makan, minum, drive elok-elok ..Nanti awak sakit saye susah ati ” katenya…
Tapi bila tengok movie sama-sama burn asar maghrib gitu die tak kata satu aper pun…Berdosanye saya….
Saya memang sayang dia…Nak jumper die .. Yang forever punye forever…
Di dunia dan akhirat terutamanya, Janji nak share heaven sama-sama…Bahagia selamanya…

Semoga kami saling mengingati,
Dosa sendiri pun infiniti…
Nak tanggung dosa dia lagi pulak lepas ni…

Semoga kami menginsafi diri…
Ya Allah ampunkanlah kami….
Semoga kami dapat bersama selamanya nanti…

Cinta tu anugerah Allah… Pandai-panda­i la kita menjaga nikmat Allah it

By: Sweet like chocolate

An advice from la hermana

"Tell him straight off. I stopped texting you coz I doubt your interest in me is genuine. And I'm not into playing games if I like someone.

So if you're playing lets be clear that we just gonna be casual friends and behave like it

Don't be scared just text it so things are clear and you don't fall in love with a complete PLAYER

Listen just don't forget what its like when you go through that crazy pain when things don't work out. We both been through it.

I don't want that for you ever again.

You got to be so careful..

Kite ni, senang jatuh cinta with cinta

Its our nature

So we have to take extra precaution against mistakes

Cheer up you are a very successful woman at the end of the day, when the time comes you will recognize your true jodoh because he will recognize you"

Kentut

Jatuh cinta diibaratkan sebagai KENTUT
Nak 'dilepas' terase malu, tapi kalau tak 'dilepas' , diri terase gelisah dan tak tentu hale

Reference: MADI

Sakit

Sapa la kita ni Madi~~
Tak tergolong dalam senaraii~~
Sodeh denn~~

:-(

:-(

Biarlah berlabuh tirai kisah semalam

Written and send on 11/5/2010

Te Extraño

I will..
Miss the laughter that we've shared
Will miss the teasing
Will miss the jokes
Will miss the presence of you
Will miss the funny faces
Will miss the style of your hair
Will miss your long eye lashes when it blinks2
Wil miss the dimples when you smile
Will miss those words and its accent,
"manna boleh habbaaaq",
"oh2 ok",
"soalan xbest"
"jom jogging NMR"
"take care eaaa"
Will miss the white-green shoes and the bright orange slipper
Will miss the nice pants from the bundle
Will miss the smell of you
will miss the 'parietin' that was succesfully isolated from Teloschistes flavicans
will miss the emoticons on the YM and the viruses 'who' always visit on
my window
Will miss the orange juice and the kacang parang that you bought and
the 60 cent that you gave me
Those time will live in my memories
And kept safe, deep down in me..

You came into my life
Even if only for months
But you've opened up my heart
And put me a smile on my face
Make me laugh and happy
After the miseries that I've been through
And thank you for that..

But I know
All these means nothing to you
But it doesnt even really matter now
As by now, I know who you really are
And thank God for saving me from being drowned even more

Sorry for the words
It was 'mucho estupido' to say that
But it doest even really matter now
As by now, I know who you really are

I pray all the best for u
May u be blessed always and forever